Making Positive Thinking and Self-talk a Priority in 2025

One goal to consider for 2025 is to learn effective ways to manage stress and implement positive thinking and self-talk.


By Cheri Bennett | Rockingham, NC | February 18, 2025

How are you stepping into 2025? Are you strolling with a pep in your step and a positive attitude, or are you dragging into the new year with negative thoughts and feelings? Research has shown that feelings of optimism and pessimism can affect our health more than we realize. One goal to consider for 2025 is to learn effective ways to manage stress and implement positive thinking and self-talk.

What is self-talk? Self-talk consists of those thoughts that endlessly run through our minds. These thoughts happen automatically and can be either negative or positive. Some of the self-talk is based on actual circumstances and is reasonable and logical.

On the other hand, self-talk can be self-created due to a lack of information or understanding on our part. Too much negative self-talk is what is often referred to in today’s popular culture as “getting in your head”. When you reach this point of self-talk, you are now less confident in yourself and your ability to manage the situation before you. This scenario can prevent individuals from reaching their highest potential or even forming positive relationships with others.

Practicing positive self-talk and positive thinking does not mean that a person does not acknowledge unpleasant situations. Instead, they have chosen to acknowledge the unpleasant circumstance positively and productively. They hope for the best outcome. They choose to be optimistic! In our lifetime, we have seen examples of great optimists, maybe some have been in your family. These people manage to maintain positive thinking and self-talk to turn crises into positive outcomes.

According to researchers, there are several health benefits associated with positive thinking. These include:

•        Increased life span

•        Lessened levels of depression

•        Lessened levels of distress and pain

•        Stronger resistance to illnesses

•        Higher quality of psychological and physical well-being

•        Greater cardiovascular health and reduced risk of death from cardiovascular disease and stroke

•        Decreased risk of death from cancer

•        Reduced risk of death from respiratory conditions

•        Decreased risk of death from infections

•        Stronger coping skills during hardships and times of stress

Although research is ongoing as to the specific reasons for these improvements associated with positive thinking and self-talk, one theory is that having a positive outlook enables one to cope better in stressful circumstances. This, in turn, reduces the negative effects of stress on the body.

It’s unclear why people who engage in positive thinking experience these health benefits. One theory is that having a positive view enables you to cope better with stressful situations, which reduces the harmful health effects of stress on your body.

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The Connection Between Positive and Optimistic People and Healthy Lifestyle

Stress, environment, and lack of sleep can also affect mood and the ability to think positively. In the new year, strive to find ways to purposely improve in these areas. Additionally, incorporating more physical activity, not smoking, or excessively drinking alcohol are areas of lifestyle that should be examined. Registered Dietician Katey Davidson recommends incorporating foods that are filled with essential vitamins, minerals, and compounds that have the potential to lift our spirits into our diets. These foods include:

  • Dark chocolate – The flavonoids in dark chocolate have been linked to increased serotonin levels which may help alleviate symptoms of depression.
  • Bananas – The tryptophan in bananas is an amino acid that’s a precursor to serotonin. They also contain vitamin B6, which aids in mood regulation.
  • Berries – Strawberries, blueberries, and raspberries are rich in antioxidants. These antioxidants combat oxidative stress, which research has linked to mood disorders.
  • Oily fish – Salmon, mackerel, and sardines contain omega-3 fatty acids. Omega-3 fatty acids have anti-inflammatory properties which can potentially aid in combatting depression.
  • Nuts and seeds – Walnuts, chin seeds, and flaxseeds are also sources of omega-3s.
  • Oats – Oats release energy slowly, preventing the sugar spikes and dips that can impact our mood.
  • Spinach – Spinach is rich in folate. Folate is a B vitamin that helps produce the mood-regulating neurotransmitters, serotonin and dopamine.
  • Avocados – Avocados are also rich in B vitamins and monounsaturated fats. These nutrients are beneficial for neurotransmitters and brain health.
  • Green tea – Filled with amino acid L-theanine, green tea may help promote relaxation. Green tea also provides a gentle caffeine boost to kick-start your thy with alertness and mental clarity. This combination helps you stay alert and clear-headed without the jitters often associated with caffeine alone.
  • Beans – Beans are rich in protein and fiber. They also help to maintain stable blood sugar levels and prevent mood swings.
  • Poultry – Chicken and turkey are excellent sources of an amino acid called tryptophan. This amino acid boosts serotonin production, thus elevating mood.
  • Sweet potatoes – Sweet potatoes contain fiber and complex carbohydrates. This combination helps stabilize blood sugar levels and mood.
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To help you focus on positive thinking during the new year, start by identifying areas necessary for change, checking your thoughts regularly, being open to humor, following a healthy lifestyle, surrounding yourself with positive people, and practicing positive self-talk.

If you are interested in learning more about health and wellness, contact Cheri Bennett at Cheri_ben-nett@ncsu.edu. The Richmond County Cooperative Extension Office helps provide research-based education and technology to the producers and citizens of this great county The office is located at 123 Caroline St. in Rockingham, NC and can be reached at 910-997-8255 or richmond.ces.ncsu.edu for more information.

Kendrick Lamar’s Super Bowl Performance Sparks National Debate

Kendrick Lamar’s Super Bowl LIX halftime performance on February 9, 2025, has become a focal point of national discussion, eliciting a spectrum of reactions from acclaim to controversy.


By Milton Kirby | Atlanta, GA | February 15, 2025

Kendrick Lamar’s Super Bowl LIX halftime performance on February 9, 2025, has become a focal point of national discussion, eliciting a spectrum of reactions from acclaim to controversy. Lamar engaged the audience with satire and symbolism, and the lyrics touched on political and hot-button issues.

Dr. Dre, Missy Elliott, Travis Scott, and Ludacris have performed at the Super Bowl, but Kendrick Lamar was the first solo rap artist to headline the Super Bowl, which was the most watched to-date with 127.7 million viewers. Lamar’s performance was both a personal milestone and a significant moment for hip-hop culture.

A Performance Rich in Symbolism and Star Power

The halftime show commenced with actor Samuel L. Jackson portraying Uncle Sam, delivering satirical commentary that set the stage for Lamar’s politically charged set. Lamar’s repertoire included tracks like “Bodies,” “Squabble Up,” “HUMBLE,” “DNA,” and “Euphoria.” R&B artist SZA joined him for renditions of “Luther” and “All the Stars.” A standout moment was tennis legend Serena Williams performing the Crip Walk during “Not Like Us”. Williams’ dance was a nod to her 2012 Olympic victory celebration, which had previously sparked controversy.

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Diverse Reactions and Political Undertones

The performance’s political undertones were evident, with Jackson’s Uncle Sam character symbolizing American societal and political systems. Lamar’s critique of national issues was highlighted during “HUMBLE,” where a depiction of the American flag split, symbolizing division. The show also referenced the unfulfilled promise of “40 acres and a mule” to formerly enslaved people, underscoring themes of systemic inequality.

Reactions to the halftime show were polarized. While many praised its artistry and bold messaging, conservative figures like Matt Gaetz and Lauren Boebert criticized it. Former wrestler Hulk Hogan expressed confusion over the performance, stating he “couldn’t understand a word that was being said.” Conversely, Kid Rock, known for opposing Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion initiatives, surprisingly commended Lamar’s unapologetic style during an appearance on “Real Time with Bill Maher.”

Feud with Drake Intensifies

The inclusion of “Not Like Us” intensified Lamar’s ongoing feud with Drake. Despite legal actions from Drake and his team, Lamar performed a censored version of the track, omitting contentious lyrics. Drake, in response, released “Gimme a Hug” from his album “$ome $exy $ongs 4 U,” signaling a desire to move past the rivalry.

NFL’s Reflections and Future Considerations

The NFL faced scrutiny over its selection of Lamar as the headliner, especially given the event’s New Orleans location. Critics argued that local rapper Lil Wayne would have been a more fitting choice. NFL insiders admitted to regretting the decision, acknowledging that Lil Wayne’s connection to the city might have resonated better with the audience.

A Decorated Career

Beyond the Super Bowl, Kendrick Lamar’s career is adorned with numerous accolades. He has received 22 Grammy Awards out of 57 nominations, making him one of the most awarded rappers in Grammy history. In 2018, he made history by winning the Pulitzer Prize for Music for his album “DAMN.,” becoming the first non-classical or jazz artist to receive the honor. Excluding the Grammy, Kendrick has been nominated for 421 music awards winning 182.

Looking Ahead

As Lamar continues his Grand National Tour with SZA, the impact of his Super Bowl appearance remains a topic of fervent discussion. At 37, Lamar shows no signs of slowing down, with his recent album “GNX” receiving critical acclaim and commercial success. His Super Bowl performance showcased his artistic prowess and solidified his position as a cultural icon unafraid to address complex societal issues through his music.

The tour will include a stop in Atlanta, GA, on Tuesday, April 29, 2025, as well as other cities before ending in June.

Carleen Cumberbatch named Distinguished Older Georgian

The Georgia Council on Aging has named Ms. Carleen Cumberbatch the 2025 Distinguished Older Georgian, an honor awarded annually to a Georgian aged 70 or older who has demonstrated outstanding service to seniors at the community


By Milton Kirby | Atlanta, GA | February 12, 2025

The Georgia Council on Aging (GCOA) has named Ms. Carleen Cumberbatch the 2025 Distinguished Older Georgian, an honor awarded annually to a Georgian aged 70 or older who has demonstrated outstanding service to seniors at the community, state, or federal level. Ms. Cumberbatch’s lifetime of service, advocacy, and leadership exemplifies the spirit of positive aging and dedication to improving the lives of others.

The award was presented on February 11, 2025, at the Georgia State Capitol as part of Senior Day at the Capitol. With a career and volunteer record spanning decades, Ms. Cumberbatch has been a tireless advocate for seniors, particularly in DeKalb County, where her efforts have led to significant improvements in senior services.

Photo by Milton Kirby – Carleen Cumberbatch

A retired educator with 29 years of experience in the New York City Education System, Ms. Cumberbatch has served in roles ranging from teacher to district supervisor. Her commitment to public service continued in Georgia, where she was appointed to the Housing Authority of DeKalb County (HADC) Board of Commissioners in 2003.

Her advocacy work began over 30 years ago when she recognized that DeKalb County lacked services for seniors unless they were homebound or indigent. Determined to make a difference, she founded the South DeKalb Senior Line Dancers, a program designed to encourage exercise and socialization among seniors while advocating for their needs. The group has since performed at nursing homes, schools, hospitals, assisted living facilities, and senior centers.

Her work was instrumental in getting the Lou Walker Senior constructed in DeKalb County. Ms. Cumberbatch is a tireless leader and advocate for other seniors in Georgia and the United States of America.

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Ms. Cumberbatch has also been an active AARP volunteer, leading workshops on Medicare, organizing senior group ministries, and lecturing at Georgia Perimeter College’s nursing program. Her efforts have not gone unnoticed—her long list of accolades includes the Hidden Figures of DeKalb County Award (2017), an award from Congressman Hank Johnson for her work with seniors (2012), the Trail Blazers Women of Distinction Award (2012), the Helping Hand Award for Community Service from WB36 (2002), and the Unsung Heroine Award from the Metro Atlanta Coalition of 100 Black Women (2001).

Her extensive leadership roles include serving as:

  • Board Chair for Resident Services Corporation (a nonprofit affiliate of HADC)
  • Board Chair for the Housing Authority of DeKalb County
  • Member of the Atlanta Regional Commission Advisory Committee on Aging (since 2001)
  • Commissioner for the NAHRO Board (2010-2021)
  • Volunteer with AARP
  • Co-coordinator of Bridge Builders of DeKalb (2003-2006)
  • Representative of DeKalb County’s District 31 Georgia Silver Hair Legislature
  • Member of the DeKalb County Senior Advisory Board
  • Officer on the International Board of the African Travel Association (ATA)
  • Coordinator for Commissioner Lou Walker’s District 7 Community Planning Unit
  • Member of the Atlanta Regional Commission Senior Task Force
  • Member of the Georgia Council on Aging
  • First Vice President of the DeKalb Section of the National Council of Negro Women
  • Member of the League of Women Voters
  • Member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc., Decatur Chapter

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Ms. Cumberbatch’s leadership and advocacy efforts have contributed significantly to improving the quality of life for seniors in DeKalb, Gwinnett, and Rockdale counties. Through her work with AARP, she has taken on multiple roles, including Entitlement Speaker, Community Coordinator, District Coordinator, and Women’s Specialist for Georgia. She has also coordinated the Seniors and Law Enforcement Together (SALT) program for DeKalb, Gwinnett, Rockdale, Morrow, and Forest Park. Additionally, her involvement with Delta Sigma Theta Sorority’s Social Action Committee has made her a strong advocate for senior rights, voter registration, and education.

Photo by Milton Kirby – Senior Day at the Capitol

The Georgia Council on Aging remains committed to its mission of advocating for aging Georgians, educating policymakers, and advising state agencies on senior issues. Ms. Cumberbatch’s recognition as the 2025 Distinguished Older Georgian reflects her unwavering dedication to this cause and her profound impact on the community.

Her legacy inspires future generations and proves that advocacy, service, and leadership have no age limit.

Chuck Burch: Skating, Golfing, and Giving Back Through Scholarships

Chuck Burch has dedicated over two decades to transforming lives through education via the Chuck Burch Scholarship Fund (CBSF), which has awarded over $315,000 to more than 200 students. CBSF not only provides scholarships but also advocates for education, mentoring students through financial aid and college navigation while fostering community engagement.

By Milton Kirby | Dallas, TX | February 10, 2025

Chuck Burch has been on a mission to transform lives through education for more than two decades. As of December 31, 2024, the Chuck Burch Scholarship Fund (CBSF) has awarded over $315,000 in scholarships to more than 200 students and organizations, helping young minds access higher education opportunities they might not have otherwise had.

Photo by Milton Kirby – Church Burch

The CBSF was founded in 2000, and its guiding principle is clear: “To invoke the wheels of change in a young person’s life by providing them access to resources that make higher education an attainable goal.” More than just a scholarship fund, CBSF advocates for education, guiding students through the financial aid process and helping them navigate college. Thanks to Burch’s leadership, the foundation has cultivated relationships with high schools, colleges, and universities nationwide, making it easier for students to secure funding, connect with prospective institutions, and, in many cases, get recruited.

A Personal Journey of Resilience and Determination

 

Burch’s passion for education is deeply personal. Growing up in Detroit, Michigan, in a single-parent household as the oldest of three children, he faced financial hardships early on. Neither of his parents completed college, but his mother instilled in him the importance of academic excellence and athletics.

His college journey began with limited financial resources, forcing him to apply strategically to schools that waived application fees. He was accepted into Howard University and Florida A&M University. He received full scholarships from Morehouse College and North Carolina A&T State University. When North Carolina A&T personally reached out to recruit him, he felt valued and ultimately chose to attend the university—a decision that would shape his future.

After graduating, Burch entered the corporate world, landing an internship at Arthur Andersen and a full-time position at KPMG in Texas. However, when the economy took a downturn, he and his entire entry class were laid off. With no clear path forward, he took short-term jobs—swiping credit cards overnight to test machines, picking up highway trash, and doing anything necessary to stay afloat.

Turning Setbacks into Success

 

Unemployment challenges led Burch to an important realization: financial stability required multiple income streams. In 1983, after being laid off, he partnered with a colleague to offer bookkeeping and tax preparation services from a kitchen table. By 2003, after another layoff, he was ready to commit to entrepreneurship fully.

Encouraged by a client who told him, “Now you have more time for me,” Burch launched The Burch Financial Group (BFG), a tax, financial advisory, and wealth management firm. BFG provides tax and financial planning services to individuals and small businesses, helping clients navigate investments, retirement, education funding, tax planning, risk management, and estate strategies.

Giving Back: The Birth of CBSF

 

Despite his financial success, Burch never forgot the impact of his college scholarship. He committed to giving back in honor of North Carolina A&T’s role in his life. What began as a small golf tournament among friends grew into a nationwide scholarship initiative fueled by Burch’s love of roller skating and golf. Through annual roller-skating parties and golf tournaments, CBSF raises between $20,000 and $25,000 annually to support aspiring college students.

The Mission of CBSF

 

CBSF is dedicated to fostering “Education for the Next Generation” through college scholarships, financial education, mentoring, career development, and community engagement. With the support of volunteers, businesses, corporate sponsors, and the wider community, CBSF provides much-needed resources to students striving for a brighter future.

The foundation currently serves students and families in the Dallas/Fort Worth area and roller-skating and golfing communities across Texas, Oklahoma, and Louisiana. With a growing presence in the national roller-skating community, CBSF is reaching more students than ever before. Many recipients have gone on to become successful entrepreneurs, corporate managers, and professionals, often citing their CBSF scholarship as the financial bridge that made college possible.

Scholarship Details

 

Each year, CBSF awards a scholarship to a student from the Dallas/Fort Worth area who has been accepted as an incoming freshman at North Carolina A&T State University. The scholarship is awarded in two payments—half in the fall and half in the spring of the student’s first year—and is not renewable.

Eligibility Criteria:

  • Must be a graduating high school senior in the Dallas/Fort Worth Metroplex.
  • Must have been accepted to North Carolina A&T State University.
  • Must be a U.S. citizen.
  • Must not be receiving a full academic or athletic scholarship to NCA&T.
  • Must demonstrate financial need as evaluated by the scholarship committee.
  • Selection is based on a combination of academic performance, extracurricular involvement, and financial need.

A Passion for Roller Skating and Community Building

 

Beyond financial planning and philanthropy, Burch has a personal passion—roller skating. He frequently hosts skating events to fundraise for CBSF, bringing together communities while supporting needy students.

“I love roller skating. It’s my favorite recreational activity,” Burch says, emphasizing how his interests fuel his ability to give back.

Prospective applicants can find more details and apply through the following platforms:

Through education, mentorship, and his passions for roller skating and golf, Chuck Burch continues to change lives—one scholarship at a time

How Men Can Benefit From Regular Facials

Dermatologists and aestheticians share more about how men can benefit from facials too, the unique benefits, and how to have a more comfortable experience

By Ashley Broadwater| February 10, 2025

When it comes to self-care, these days men have plenty of options to groom and care for their skin in various ways.

However, research suggests they may not be taking advantage of all of the opportunities. For example, a YouGov poll in 2024 surveyed 1,148 American adults selected from a 2019 community survey. The sample was stratified by gender, age, race, education, geographic region and political party. The poll found that 58% of men skip daily moisturizing, and some prefer the bare minimum skincare routine.

But there’s one specific type of self-care where dermatologists and aestheticians say men are lagging far behind: facials.

“Here is the reality: Facials are not only for women,” said dermatologist Dr. Hamdan Abdullah Hamed. “In fact, they’re a smart move for anyone who wants healthy, clear skin.”

Ahead, dermatologists and aestheticians share more about how men can benefit from facials too, the unique benefits, and how to have a more comfortable experience.

Why more men need to get regular facials

Facials are a safe treatment, and they’re an important part of skincare for all of us. While there’s no set-in-stone frequency, Meka Mathis, a master aesthetician and owner of Skin Beauty Bar, suggested getting one every four to six weeks. This aligns with the skin’s natural regeneration cycle, which sheds old skin cells every 4-6 weeks to produce new cells.

But back to men specifically: “Men benefit from facials as much as women do, though interest in skincare among men has traditionally lagged far behind that of women,” said Dr. Kate Dee, a Yale-trained aesthetician physician and founder of Glow Medispa in Seattle.

Here are a handful of the benefits that are specifically effective for men:

Testosterone = more oil glands

“Because they have more testosterone, men usually have thicker skin with extra oil glands,” Hamed said. “This means your skin can take more damage, but also becomes oily quicker, which causes problems like blocked pores, blackheads and acne.”

Dead skin build-up, as well as clogged and enlarged pores, are other issues you can avoid with a facial, according to Mathis. Further, regular maintenance can help you avoid acne and blemishes.

Additionally, for men who shave their faces, they may suffer from bumps, redness and general irritation. Facials can improve the skin and ease that irritation, said dermatologist Dr. Anthony Rossi.

For mental health

Facials can boost your emotional well-being in various ways.

“Facials allow for that hour of self-care,” Mathis said. “This can help increase momentum and self-worth.”

Those effects — both short-term and long-term — make sense, right? “Facials are like massages in the sense that they are soothing, calming and refreshing,” Dee added. “Having a facial can improve mood and outlook.”

The mental health benefits are based on science. “Your body makes less cortisol [when you’re less stressed], and it benefits your whole body, not only your face,” Hamed said. (Cortisol is known as the stress hormone.)

Skincare isn’t masculine or feminine

For men who are reluctant to get a facial, dermatologists and aestheticians shared encouraging words.

For one, skincare is simply smart — an attractive quality in anyone.

“Taking care of your skin does not make you less manly; it makes you clever,” Hamed said. “Healthy skin appears better, feels better and prevents bigger issues in the time ahead.”

At the end of the day, none of this is gender-specific.

“We should not think of skincare and facial care in feminine or masculine tropes,” Rossi said. “These procedures and self-care are great for all persons if they want it, and those old stereotypes are tired. You only have one face, so you should take care of it, along with your body and mind.”

How to find a spa where you’ll feel comfortable

Want to ensure the spa is prepared to meet your needs? Mathis recommended hopping on Google and searching for a licensed aesthetician who’s experienced with facial care.

After Googling, Hamed suggested asking the providers what types of facials they offer — like deep-cleaning facials for oily skin, or hydrating facials for after you shave — and if the spa carries products specifically for men.

“The more you know, the more comfortable you’ll feel,” he pointed out.

These places do exist, by the way. Mathis said many spas, including her own, offer male-specific facials. And they want to. “Spas love to welcome men into the spa environment,” Dee added.

“You don’t necessarily need a men’s-only spa, as many spas and facialists can treat all persons,” Rossi confirmed.

This Valentine’s Day, consider what all types of love bring to your life

The holiday is a chance to consider just how rich, diverse and beneficial every form of love is in the human experience, whether it comes from your family, friends, pets, neighbors or community.

By DEVI SHASTRI | February 10, 2025

Valentine’s Day is for lovers — but you don’t need a romantic soulmate to celebrate.

The holiday is a chance to consider just how rich, diverse and beneficial every form of love is in the human experience, whether it comes from your family, friends, pets, neighbors or community.

Three experts shared how to nurture love in all its forms at a time when loneliness is an ” epidemic,” politics are divisive and turning to technology is often easier real-life social interactions.

You need more than just “the” love of your life

Romantic love — a deep, intimate partnership with another person or persons — is a valuable part of life. But experts say it’s good to remember that we need to have several sources of connection.

“Especially as we get older, we recognize that no one relationship is going to provide us with everything,” said Mikaela Frissell, a social worker for UT Health Austin.

Love isn’t something that can easily be pinned down with a single definition or behavior, either.

As a verb, love has two things at play, according to epidemiologist Tyler VanderWeele, who directs Harvard University’s Human Flourishing Program. It can be both or either “unitive” — meaning you desire and want to be with the person or thing you love — or “contributive,” meaning you want to contribute to the good of your beloved.

The experts also said an expanded definition and view of love opens up the possibilities toward whom and what you can direct these “unitive” and “contributive” feelings.

The connection between love, loneliness and health

In 2023, then-U.S. Surgeon General Vivek Murthy declared loneliness a public health epidemic.

Murthy’s report said half of Americans have experienced loneliness and that it poses health risks as deadly as smoking 15 cigarettes a day. The research also found that people with poor social relationships had higher risk of stroke and heart disease, and that isolation raises a person’s chance of depression, anxiety and dementia.

Love’s strong social connections, bonding and support are linked to better health, because it allows the brain to signal to the body that you are safe and take your nervous system out of “fight or flight,” Frissell said. Research shows being with loved ones can lower blood pressure, stress hormones, reduce inflammation — even help you sleep and better manage pain.

The ongoing Harvard Study of Adult Development, which is the underpinning of the book “The Good Life,” showed the value of relationships across a lifetime.

Anthony Chambers, a psychologist and chief academic officer at The Family Institute at Northwestern University, said one of the Harvard study’s findings was people who were happiest in their relationships at 50 were the healthiest mentally and physically at 80.

“The conclusion? Building meaningful and satisfying relationships is key to our health and well-being,” said Chambers, who worked on the study early in his career.

How can I nurture love?

Simply put, intentionally seek out in-person connections, experts said.

What’s not so simple is planning things with other people. It may be uncomfortable to sift through calendars to find a date for dinner with a busy friend or to call your sibling who doesn’t have much to talk about. Perhaps it’ll be awkward to strike up a conversation with the elderly neighbor you haven’t met or join a softball team.

Acknowledge and interrogate the fears or assumptions that keep you from reaching out in those moments, Frissell said.

There is also doing good things for other people — even if you don’t know them that well. Frissell challenges clients to compliment someone every day and be open to accepting one in return. The benefits of receiving and giving love are the same, she said.

VanderWeele recommends an exercise he practices: Choose one day a week, for six weeks, to do five acts of kindness. It forces you to plan and prioritize kindness intentionally, just like any other daily task, he said.

Love can build resilience

This Valentine’s Day, experts encourage you to think beyond one-on-one relationships and reflect on your community and world. Having a commitment to a cause or group builds mental resilience, they added.

“We all seek to be understood and validated, especially during difficult times. And relationships are arguably the most important context for emotional healing,” Chambers said. “When the world around us can seem to be in chaos or we’re feeling alone, relationships provide the opportunity for us to feel validated.”

VanderWeele also said it’s important to have even “love of enemy” — people who we don’t agree with or are in opposition to us.

“The extent to which we love others well, we love our neighbors well, shapes the society we live in,” he said.

Lenses, Learning, and Legacy: Highlights from Imaging USA 2025

Imaging USA 2025 in Texas united photographers for top-tier education, gear expos, networking, and business growth—America’s premier photography conference for professionals and creatives alike.


By Milton Kirby | Grapevine, TX, | February 5, 2025

The Professional Photographers of America (PPA) kicked off its flagship annual gathering—Imaging USA—on February 2 at the sprawling Gaylord Texan Resort & Convention Center in Grapevine, just a 30-minute drive from Dallas-Fort Worth International Airport

A Hub of Innovation, Education, and Business

Imaging USA, the nation’s premier photography event, saw a convergence of over 10,000 photographers, from part-time enthusiasts to seasoned professionals. The three-day conference was a testament to the scale and significance of the photography industry.

Photo by Milton Kirby Natalie G. attends to network and hone skills
  • The three-day conference was a treasure trove of educational workshops and classes, offering a wide range of topics from technical lighting and portraiture to marketing, business coaching, and post‑production strategies. The depth and breadth of learning opportunities were unparalleled. A vibrant Expo Hall hosting 130+ exhibitors, offering hands-on gear demos, software showcases, and educational experiences from leading industry brands.

Imaging USA was not just a conference, but a vibrant community of creative minds. The networking opportunities, including the popular Networking Avenue, photowalks led by industry experts, and social events like welcome and closing parties, fostered a sense of connection and collaboration.

This year introduced several standout elements:

  • Keynote speaker, Shola Richards, CEO and Founder of Go Together Global, kicked off the event with a powerful presentation that energized attendees for the year ahead.
  • A revamped International Photographic Competition (IPC) with live audience voting incorporated into real-time judging—a first for Imaging USA
  • Pre‑conference classes from January 30 through February 1, offering in-depth instruction on topics like studio lighting, Photoshop, and niche genres like boudoir and sports photography.
  • The PPA Cares Initiative, focused on sustainability through eco‑friendly signage, donation of leftover materials, and reusable event merchandise..
  • Community hubs like the Stadium Club for school‑sports‑events photographers and a Bridging the Gap Speaker Lounge for business development insight from PPA gap class experts.
  • More Photo Walks, six interactive photo walks sponsored by Fujifilm, Nikon, and VSCO. These free, hands-on experiences allowed participants to practice their photography in real-world settings with a small group of fellow attendees. 

Networking, Parties & Recognitions

Conference attendees indulged in photowalks, model shoots in the stylish Networking Avenue bays, and multiple social occasions—highlighted by a lively Rhinestone Cowboy-themed Welcome Party and a festive Closing Party to wind down and celebrate camaraderie. On Tuesday evening, world-renowned photographer Dan Winters received PPA’s Lifetime Achievement Award, presenting at the Award & Degree Ceremony during IPC Finals.

Community Feedback & Atmosphere

Anecdotal reactions from attendees echoed the sentiment that the experience was impactful. Photographers cited fresh ideas, business insights, and valuable personal connections formed at the conference—even planning future collaborations and sharing successes online.

Internet chatter among attendees, including social media and Reddit posts, hinted at excitement around gear demos, mobile‑versus‑traditional debates, and questions about bridging the gap between creativity and commerce.

Looking Ahead

With Imaging USA 2025 wrapping up, PPA has already announced its future venues: Nashville in 2026, Charlotte in 2027, and a return to Grapevine in 2028. Meanwhile, attendees departed with fresh inspiration, new tools for growing their businesses, and a strong sense of community.

Bottom Line: Imaging USA 2025 was a power-packed photography summit—education, technology, and community all wrapped in a grand Texas backdrop. It offered plenty for artists, entrepreneurs, and gear junkies alike.

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Atlanta Dream Sign Brittney Griner in Historic Free Agent Acquisition

In a game-changing move, the Atlanta Dream have signed Brittney Griner, one of the most dominant and influential players in WNBA history

By Milton Kirby | ATLANTA, GA | Feb. 4, 2025

In a game-changing move, the Atlanta Dream have signed Brittney Griner, one of the most dominant and influential players in WNBA history. The ten-time All-Star, three-time Olympic Gold Medalist, and 2014 WNBA Champion brings a wealth of experience, leadership, and elite talent to the Dream’s roster, marking a significant milestone for the franchise.

“Brittney is the perfect fit for this team, this organization, and this city,” said General Manager Dan Padover. “She brings Hall of Fame talent, championship presence, and leadership to our organization. This is a monumental moment for our franchise.”

Griner, a 6-foot-9 center, was the No. 1 overall pick in the 2013 WNBA Draft by the Phoenix Mercury. Over her 11-year career, she has redefined the center position, averaging 17.7 points, 7.4 rebounds, and 2.6 blocks per game. She currently ranks 18th all-time in points scored and third in total blocks with 812. A two-time WNBA scoring champion and six-time All-WNBA Team selection, Griner played a pivotal role in the Mercury’s 2014 WNBA Championship run, where she was named Finals MVP.

“Atlanta felt like home the moment I started thinking about this next chapter,” said Griner. “What led me here was the team, the players, and most importantly, my family. I’m excited to be part of this city, to connect with the community, and to help elevate this team into championship contention.”

Griner’s legacy extends far beyond the WNBA. She led her high school team to a Texas 5A championship before guiding Baylor to a perfect season and a National Championship in 2012. A two-time NCAA Player of the Year, she holds the record for the most career blocks in NCAA Division I history. Internationally, she has represented Team USA in two World Cups (2014 and 2018) and three Olympic Games, securing gold medals in 2016, 2020, and 2024.

Beyond her on-court achievements, Griner has been a trailblazer for LGBTQ+ representation in sports. As one of the first openly gay athletes selected in the WNBA Draft, she has been a powerful advocate for equality and inclusion, using her platform to inspire and uplift marginalized communities.

“Brittney is a Hall of Fame player who brings unmatched skill, productivity, and an incredible level of unselfishness to the court,” said Head Coach Karl Smesko. “Her leadership and selflessness will not only elevate our team but also enhance the chemistry and culture that we are cultivating.”

Griner joins an already formidable Dream core that includes fellow Olympians Rhyne Howard and Allisha Gray and two-time WNBA champion Jordin Canada. Howard and Gray are both two-time All-Stars, and Canada is a two-time All-Defensive First-Team recipient. The Dream’s future looks bright, with Griner as a cornerstone of the franchise’s championship aspirations.

About the Atlanta Dream

Established in 2008, the Atlanta Dream is the Southeast’s only WNBA franchise, playing its home games at the Gateway Center Arena @ College Park. Dream games are broadcast locally on Peachtree TV and simulcast on Peachtree Sports Network across Georgia. Since 2009, the team has produced 11 WNBA All-Stars, secured three first-place regular-season finishes, earned 10 playoff berths, and made three WNBA Finals appearances. For more information, visit dream.wnba.com and follow @AtlantaDream on Facebook, Instagram, X, and TikTok.

Carter G. Woodson – the Father of Black History

Carter Godwin Woodson, known as the Father of Black History, was a pioneering historian, author, journalist, and educator who dedicated his life to documenting and promoting African American history.

By Milton Kirby | Decatur, GA | February 4, 2025

Carter Godwin Woodson, known as the “Father of Black History,” was a pioneering historian, author, journalist, and educator who dedicated his life to documenting and promoting African American history. Born on December 19, 1875, in New Canton, Virginia, Woodson’s work laid the foundation for studying and recognizing Black history in the United States.

A Scholar and Educator

Woodson’s academic career was characterized by tenacity and excellence. He attended Lincoln University in Pennsylvania and Berea College in Kentucky before earning his doctorate from Harvard University, becoming the second African American to do so after W.E.B. Du Bois. He later served as the Dean of the School of Arts and Sciences at Howard University, where he emphasized the value of Black scholarship. Woodson taught in both public and collegiate settings, trained researchers and staff members, and authored numerous books and articles on Black history. From 1919 to 1920, he also served as the Dean of the School of Liberal Arts and Head of the Graduate Faculty at Howard University.

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Founding the Study of Black History

In 1915, Woodson founded the Association for the Study of African American Life and History (ASALH) to promote research and education on Black heritage. He also established the Associated Publishers, a company dedicated to publishing works by and about African Americans. From his home in Washington, D.C.’s Shaw neighborhood, he led ASALH’s initiatives and wrote extensively on Black history, including managing The Journal of Negro History (now The Journal of African American History).

Woodson’s efforts to establish African American history as an essential part of the larger American narrative extended beyond his organizations and publications. His work inspired educators nationwide to incorporate Black history into their curricula, and many sought his advice and resources for classroom use.

The Birth of Black History Month

In 1926, Woodson launched Negro History Week to highlight the contributions of Black Americans. He selected the second week of February to coincide with the birthdays of Frederick Douglass (February 14) and Abraham Lincoln (February 12). Over time, this observance gained nationwide recognition and expanded into Black History Month, which was officially designated by the U.S. government in 1976. President Gerald Ford urged Americans to “seize the opportunity to honor the too-often neglected accomplishments of Black Americans.”

A Lasting Legacy

Woodson spent the last 28 years of his life in his Washington, D.C., home, where he continued his research and advocacy until his passing on April 3, 1950, at the age of 74. Recognizing his immense contributions, President Barack Obama designated the Carter G. Woodson Home as a National Historic Site in 2016. Located at 1538 Ninth Street NW, this site is preserved by the National Park Service as a testament to his legacy.

The Importance of the Carter G. Woodson Home

Woodson’s historic home functioned as the headquarters for ASALH and played a crucial role in advancing Black history education. From this location, he:

  • Researched and wrote groundbreaking works on African American history
  • Managed The Journal of Negro History
  • Planned the first Negro History Week, which later evolved into Black History Month
  • Led efforts to promote Black scholarship and education

The Ongoing Celebration of Black History

Today, Black History Month is celebrated in the United States and Canada (February), the United Kingdom (October), and other countries. Each year, ASALH selects a theme for the month, and the 2025 theme, “African Americans and Labor,” highlights Black workers’ contributions to labor movements and industries. Schools, institutions, and organizations continue to honor Woodson’s vision by integrating Black history into their curricula and programs year-round.

Recognizing Woodson’s Impact

Woodson’s dedication to preserving and teaching Black history ensured that African Americans’ achievements would no longer be overlooked. His legacy lives on through the work of ASALH, the continued observance of Black History Month, and the recognition of African American contributions across multiple sectors. Thanks to his efforts, the study of Black history has become an essential part of American education and culture.

As we celebrate Black History Month, we honor Carter G. Woodson’s vision and commitment to historical truth, education, and cultural preservation. His pioneering work remains a cornerstone of African American history and a testament to the power of knowledge in shaping a more inclusive society.

Mentoring and Training

Woodson was a mentor to many up-and-coming historians and scholars, including Alrutheus A. Taylor, Charles H. Wesley, Luther Porter Jackson, Lorenzo Johnston Greene, Rayford W. Logan, Lawrence D. Reddick, and John Hope Franklin. The association’s headquarters—Woodson’s home—served as a training center where these scholars refined their research skills and, in turn, mentored succeeding generations of African American historians. Woodson and ASALH also cultivated important relationships with Black churches, colleges, universities, schools, and community centers nationwide.

Carter G. Woodson Home NHS Temporarily Closed

The Carter G. Woodson Home National Historic Site is currently temporarily closed due to renovation. Please visit the National Park Service website for updates on its reopening.

Brave + Kind Bookshop: Empowering Young Readers

In the heart of Decatur, Georgia, at 722 W. College Ave., Brave and Kind Bookshop is an independent bookstore founded by local mom Bunnie Hilliard.

By Milton Kirby | Decatur, GA | February 2, 2025

In the heart of Decatur, Georgia, at 722 W. College Ave., Brave + Kind Bookshop is an independent bookstore founded by local mom Bunnie Hilliard. This Black-owned, women-led establishment offers a thoughtfully curated selection of diverse and artful stories designed to inspire bravery and kindness. While primarily focused on children and young adults, the shop also features select titles for adults.

Bunnie Hilliard – Talks about bookshop neighbor

One of the unique services offered by Brave + Kind is personalized book bundles. Whether you’re seeking a collection of beautiful nonfiction books, the perfect art and literature combination for a special child, or a starter library for a newborn, the staff will curate, wrap, and arrange for pickup or delivery to suit your needs.

The bookstore also serves as a community hub, hosting various events such as bilingual story times, youth book club meet-ups, and workshops for budding writers. Upcoming events include an Educator’s Night with author Renée Watson discussing “All the Blues in the Sky” on February 7, 2025, and a book launch party with Ibi Zoboi for “(S)kin” on February 20, 2025.

Reflecting on the inspiration behind the bookstore, Hilliard shared, “In 2016, after the election and after two years of feeling unseen and unheard as a mom of two young Black children looking to raise readers, I had a hard time finding books that had main characters or stories that resonated with the people that I was raising or the characters that I wanted to show them.” This realization led her to create a space that celebrates diverse stories, not as a section of the store but as its core essence.

In today’s digital age, there is a debate between eBooks and printed books. eBooks offer advantages such as portability, instant access, adjustable fonts, and built-in dictionaries. They are often more affordable and environmentally friendly, as they don’t require paper or physical storage space.

However, printed books provide a tactile experience that many readers cherish. The physical act of turning pages, the smell of paper, and the visual appeal of a book on a shelf contribute to a unique reading experience. Additionally, reading from a screen can lead to eye strain and may disrupt sleep patterns due to blue light exposure.

Research from Michigan Medicine indicates that reading print books to toddlers fosters higher-quality interactions between parents and children compared to digital books. The study found that traditional print books encourage more frequent and meaningful conversations during reading sessions.

Unlike digital screens, physical books do not emit blue light, which can lead to eye strain and disrupt sleep patterns. The American Optometric Association warns that prolonged screen time can cause digital eye strain, resulting in symptoms like dry eyes, headaches, and blurred vision. Limiting screen exposure, especially before bedtime, can help mitigate these effects.

A meta-analysis published in the Journal of Research in Reading found that reading from paper has a small advantage in reading performance and metacognition over screens. This suggests that individuals may comprehend and retain information better when reading print materials.

Recognizing readers’ evolving preferences, Brave + Kind Bookshop has partnered with Bookshop.org and Libro.FM, online platforms that support local independent bookstores. Through this partnership, customers can purchase physical books and eBooks online, with a portion of the proceeds benefiting Brave + Kind.

When speaking about operating a small business, she noted “One of the things that I am most proud of is that we launched the “The Atlanta Indie Bookshop Crawl.” We contacted every bookstore within a five-mile radius and invited them to be a part of an event whereby customers could visit all independent bookstores in one day.

We created a passport displaying the logos of all participants. The bookshop crawl was launched on small business Saturday. We are up to 30 bookstores now.

Not only is the bookshop a part of the local community, but Hilliard is also an active participant in her trade associations as a member of the American Book Sellers Association and board member of the Southern Independent Booksellers Alliance and has been a member of many independent bookstore associations.

As for the future, Hilliard would like to expand the bookshop and add a café and coffee shop to the bookstore.

For more information, visit their website at braveandkindbooks.com or follow them on Instagram @braveandkindbooks. They can also be reached by phone at 470-440-5714.

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